Sunday, September 13, 2009

How to Become a Better You?

Everyone is aiming to get better and better as the time passes by. Getting better comes with different results depending on what perspective you want improvement for yourself. It really helps us to get better if we will consider some lessons we could get from the experiences of others and as well as by reading some informative books.
Let me classify the 5 perspectives that I would like to explain further in order to help us to become better individuals. Although there are lots of these I have chosen these five topics on how to improve ourselves.
Emotions: Human beings have five senses. We have senses or the abilities to feel on different ways.
Sense of Touch: If you want to optimize your sense of touch you need to consider two things that could be able to help you to get better. You need to be resilient that can be able to adapt extreme pain. As what I have said there are two things that you need to regard as, one is your ability to feel extreme pain and the other one is your ability to sense the exact opposite of pain.
Have you felt pain while you accidentally touched the boiling water? This is what we call one of the extreme pains which suddenly your hand or arm had physically contacted with the boiling water. You need to set your mind not to allow it to sense by your brain. For the exact opposite if it requires your ability to feel something especially if you are relying through your sense of touch only then your brain must provide further detail of the object that you are holding or touching.
In martial arts like Karate, have you seen a movie that the martial artist has broken the hollow blocks by his bare hands? This is the ability to forget the pain and prepare your mental being in the state of objective to break the things. Can you open a soda bottle without using the bottle opener but only by your finger? This could possibly be done if you have prepared your mind that you can do it.
Sense of Sight: Your ability to see can easily describe things without physical contact. Learn to appreciate beauties and make the full use of the one of the best senses that human beings have. Through this sense you can have better judgment on things that you could see. Do not be impulsive on what your eyes can see sometimes you need to qualify such objects before making a better judgment. For an example like the forensic experts or the crime scene investigators they gathered evidences based on different categories. They do not just rely on what they had seen and most of the times it requires the sense of smell, sense of touch to support the gathered images or photos. Substantial evidence will be enough to convict the suspect based on these consolidated factual information that will be used as evidence in court.
Sense of Hearing: What you see is what you get but sometimes this is not true. In connection with what you hear will not be true as well. Once you heard something you need to think and analyze it. For those blind men, since they have lost their ability to see they rely on their ability to hear. They can make full use of this sense of hearing and can be considered as the eye of the blind men. Imagine yourself if you cannot see when you wake up in the morning, it would be like the end of the world. Hearing is not just a practical ability of hearing sounds but as well as by the ability to listen and learn. If you are in a seminar or in class but you are not paying attention to the speaker you cannot get what really the speaker would like to share to you.
Sense of Taste & Smell: The sense of taste is mostly being optimized if you are allowing matter to enter into your body. Sense of taste can be associated with the sense of smell since they have virtual responsibility to generate and feed your brain with information about the object that you allowed to enter into your body.
Do not be judgmental. Sometimes what you really see is not what you could get. Make a careful study and do not be impulsive in giving any reactions at first. Try to analyze things before somebody will know your reaction. You can avoid of being quoted by others that could be used against you if you are wise enough to comprehend things.
If you are planning to establish a business, do not be impulsive on buying things such as materials to be used for your business and think of the benefit at an instant without risk assessing the prospective business.

If you hate someone it would be better if you will not throw your emotion against that person. Try to overcome hate and anger by talking to yourself on why you hate such person. Learn to forgive and forget. Do not keep or store hatred in order to avoid bursting of anger to a person. It sounds so difficult to manage your anger but it really helps you if you can avoid the person you hate first and cool yourself before making a conversation.

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